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Id sleep with one, but not date her. 12 24.49%
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Old 04-15-2007, 02:42 PM   #1  
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Single guys won't admit this, especially to women, but at one time or another they have wondered what it would be like to date an adult-film star.

We don't mean to be perverted (regardless of how it sounds).

Men only discuss this among themselves, usually over large quantities of beer and chicken wings (or here in Miami, Bacardi and ceviche).

Can a normal, regular guy date a porn queen?

I decided to take one for the team and get to the bottom of this question. The Exxxotica convention was recently held in Miami Beach, and what better venue to find out what the starlets think? (Insert your own joke here.)

So I asked the opinions of three well known stars. And the resounding answer was yes, a regular guy "does" have a chance.

"Absolutely," said Jennifer Drake, a diva from Wicked Pictures. "It's probably a lot easier than guys would think because aside from the fact that we have sex on camera, we're pretty normal. We have our hobbies, like yoga, swimming and reading."

Whoa! Why didn't I think of it that way?

Jennifer said dating someone outside of the industry is referred as dating a "civilian." (Does President Bush know the adult-entertainment industry is taking lingo notes from the military? Don't ask, don't tell!)

"I met a guy at Target once," Jennifer continued. "And I like people who share similar interests. The last time I got out of a relationship it was with a civilian. Essentially it was a problem with him dealing with what I do."

Ah, yes, there is that. Having sex. On film. As a career.
The starlets all said "that" is the single toughest part of dating a "civilian."

"A lot of us girls date regular guys but it's hard because you want to meet someone who understands your business and isn't jealous," said Tera Patrick, one of a handful of adult stars who has crossed over into mainstream culture.

While their films tend to attract "civilians," after a few months the novelty wears off.

"Jealousy can rear its ugly head," Jennifer said. "But like any other relationship, you need a lot of communication."

The more I spoke to these women, the more I heard words like communication, common interests, confidence and being yourself - staples of any relationship.

Carmen Luvana said she doesn't believe in mixing "business with pleasure." (But what if your business is pleasure? OK, never mind.) She met her "civilian" boyfriend of two years through a mutual friend.

"The big misconception by guys is they think because we have sex for a living they think that will happen all the time," Carmen said. "Just be yourself and don't talk about how many movies you have watched. Be normal and treat her like a normal person .... We want a guy that wants you for you and not because you are an adult star and he wants to let everyone know."

OK, so don't date the woman on the video jacket. Go after what's on the inside (of her - not the DVD!). Seems like common sense. But where would a guy meet a starlet? Not at an adult convention.

"That gets really old, really fast," Tera said. "At conventions they ask if you are single, if they can have your number, and say they want to marry you. It's OK to meet a fan or date a fan, but not a fanatic."

Aside from Target, other ways women say they've met men included at a tanning salon, at a spa or through friends.

"A lot of girls are looking for that guy who can take them away from everything," Tera said. "In the end, when the curls come out and the eyelashes come off, you want someone who will love you for you."

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Old 04-15-2007, 02:46 PM   #2  
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no thanks... i'd rather not stick my stick of joy in something more stretched from use than an rubber band..
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Old 04-15-2007, 02:47 PM   #3  
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no thanks... i'd rather not stick my stick of joy in something more stretched from use than an rubber band..
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Old 04-15-2007, 03:01 PM   #4  
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I'd maybe have sex with one, but dating; hell no.
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Old 04-15-2007, 03:30 PM   #5  
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no thanks... i'd rather not stick my stick of joy in something more stretched from use than an rubber band..
Porn stars probably don't have sex any more often than many regular people do; I know several people who have sex probably way more often than any porn star. It's not as if they're making a film every day, or that they're prostitutes. It's just that they get videotaped doing it.

That isn't the issue for me, it's just that would be terribly strange for me to date someone who I know is having sex with other guys. But hey, on the contrary, at least she would be honest about it instead of doing it behind my back
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Old 04-15-2007, 03:37 PM   #6  
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001: I think you are right about that. I mean, maybe if she left her career, but the thought of "yeah my g/f is off ****ing some one else" really would eat at me.
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Old 04-15-2007, 03:44 PM   #7  
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I wouldn't ever. It's all nice and hot on screen, but no thanks, keep away. Gimme something that doesn't have "already-checked-1000-times" written all over it.
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Old 04-15-2007, 03:57 PM   #8  
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Well for some of you it may be like throwing a hotdog down the hall as it were but then you guys never had a woman with a sex drive that went beyond your taught accepted norn...if any.
Be carful about strong drives boys, you may get more than you wanted.
On the other hand if you have a stong drive as well it could be a good match but as with all things remember heath is an issue with all men and women not just those who are more active, in either case if neglected you will really get more than you wanted.

As far as dateing a porn star? I got no problem with it as long as she pays her own way at dinner and doesnt bring a camera along on the first date.
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Old 04-15-2007, 05:49 PM   #9  
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If shes a fun person to hang out with, then why not? I would probably feel uncomfortable about her profession at first, but its nothing I cant get over. Its her job.
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Old 04-15-2007, 05:53 PM   #10  
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I would, I wouldn't have sex with her until I had her tested. If she's a good person then why not?
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Old 04-15-2007, 05:59 PM   #11  
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Sure I would date, it's not like I'd gonna marry her or something.

BUt seriously, nope, don't think so, it just wouldn't work.
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Old 04-15-2007, 06:04 PM   #12  
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The sex would. . .I think.
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Old 04-15-2007, 06:38 PM   #13  
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i would probably sleep with one, but since im kinda jealous i could never accept her job, and cannot date a pr0n star
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Old 04-15-2007, 07:50 PM   #14  
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I don't think I'd have any issues with dating a porn star, other than the obvious issue of my being already married. But, taking this as a hypothetical situation, I've never been jealous or self conscious. I've always preferred women with a bit of experience under their belt. As long as we got along with each other, I don't think her career would have much impact on my feelings.
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Old 04-15-2007, 08:42 PM   #15  
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Meh. I'd date one. At least you'd know when she was banging other guys.
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Old 04-15-2007, 09:16 PM   #16  
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Yes but only one that likes video games as much as me!
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I wouldn't date, because i have my computer . My computer can do everything a woman can't .
I would rather have a normal girlie wich are a bit geeky like myself that are not having teh secks with other dudes on tape.
Meh, pornstars are for fapping, not secks!
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I have dated nude dancers and go-go dancers. Same difference.
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I have decided that I am lonely enough that I would date a porn star. I'd ask every time she went on a shoot that she do condom only scenes, but again, I am so lonely that if she said no, I wouldn't do anything about it.
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Well, at least you are honest :-p I know I for one wouldnt stand to look at any of her movies, though my manly curiosity would have me googleing her up the very first night.. whish would make me super jealouse O_o
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I have decided that I am lonely enough that I would date a porn star. I'd ask every time she went on a shoot that she do condom only scenes, but again, I am so lonely that if she said no, I wouldn't do anything about it.
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Nope. Aint for me. I like the thinking type of women. Sex aint, (and never has been) the total package for me. Maybe I am just the nerd type, but I hafta kinda have something for the woman before I have sex with her. I will admit, I hit a few hotties when I was younger, drunk, and at a bar, was sorry EVERY time afterward too. Did finally learn though, that the slutty ones, were neither my type, or what I was looking for.

Like hey, there are some pretty doggone hot and foxy ladies out there, that you can also have an intelligent conversation with, after the sex. That is the kind I like.

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if she was hella fine, yes.
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Holy shit, Dead Eye! Where have you been lately?
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How to say.. Porn stars are 'overused'
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No... I want almost everything ()), but NOT dating a porn star! Lol, when you date a porn star, she stays for one night and then she goes to the next date
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yes... I don't really give two shits about her job love is love.
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Meh, it depends.

I tend to get to know a girl's personality well before dating her. So I'm going to go by meeting her as a friend-of-a-friend and therefore getting to know her before any dating goes on.

If theres enough similar interests and what not, I could live with her job. I may not be proud of it, or happy with it. Her job, her choice, and I knew it was there going into the relationship. I don't think anyone should have to change themselves for someone else.

In any case, it doesn't really matter... I'm already happily taken.
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Depends on how she treats her profession, and how our relationship develops.

If she treats her profession as more of a fun hobby and less of a profession, it would wear on me.

If our relationship develops into one with a lot of mutual respect and lateral freedom, probably.

But it's not like you could have a traditional monogamous relationship, it's just NOT possible.
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